give yourself an unattainable goal that will be fun every step of the way

The ideal goal will gently push you out of your comfort zone, build confidence in yourself as a solo entity, be a little bit scary, but a lot a bit fun. Has to be something you can do by yourself. Can optionally include friends. It doesn’t matter if you complete the goal in the end. That’s oddly enough not the point! For me, after a five year relationship over 10 years ago, I made it a goal to hike in every Texas state park. I lived in Austin at the time, so I started with the state parks cl...